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Attitude is everything
 
 There once was a woman who woke up one morning,
 looked in the mirror, and noticed she had only
 three hairs on her head.
 Well," she said, "I think I'll braid my hair
 today?"
 So she did and she had a wonderful day.
 
 The next day she woke up,
 looked in the mirror and saw that she had only
 two hairs on her head.
 "H-M-M," she said,
 "I think I'll part my hair down the middle today?"
 So she did and she had a grand day.
 
 The next day she woke up,
 looked in the mirror and noticed that she had
 only one hair on her head.
 "Well," she said,
 "today I'm going to wear my hair in a pony tail."
 So she did and she had a fun, fun day.
 
 The next day she woke up,
 looked in the mirror and noticed that there
 wasn't a single hair on her head.
 "YEA!" she exclaimed,
 "I don't have to fix my hair today!"
 
 Attitude is everything.
 Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass.
 It's about learning to dance in the rain.

                                                                Anonymous

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Francine Toder, Ph.D.

Positive Psychology Reference and Resource List

Ben-Shahar, T. Happier. McGraw-Hill, New York, 2007.

Boorstein, Sylvia. Happiness is an Inside Job. Ballantine Books, New York, 2007.

Csikszentmihalyi, M. Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience.  Harper & Row,  New York, 1990.

Emmons, R., Thanks: How the New Science of Gratitude Can Make You Happier. Houghton Mifflin Company, New York, 2007.

Joseph, S. & Linley, P.A.  Positive Therapy: A Metatheory for Positive Psychology Practice.  Routledge, New York, 2006.

Levine, M. The Positive Psychology of Buddhism and Yoga: Paths to a Mature Happiness. Lawrence Elbaum Associates, New Jersey, 2000.

Lyubomirsky, Sonja. The How of Happiness: A scientific Approach to Getting the Life You Want, The Penguin Press, New York, 2008.

Peterson, C. A Primer in Positive Psychology. Oxford University Press, New York, 2006.

Seligman, M. & Csikszentmihalyi, M. (Eds.), “Special Issue on Happiness, Excellence, and Optimal Human Functioning,” American Psychologist. American Psychological Association, Washington, D.C., January, 2000.

Schoch, R. The Secrets of Happiness: Three Thousand Years of Searching for the Good Life. Scribner, New York, 2006

Seligman, M. Learned Optimism. Knopf, New York, 1991, revised 2006.

Seligman, M. Authentic Happiness. Free Press, New York, 2002

 “The Science of Smiling.” The Harvard Crimson, www.thecrimson.com/article.aspx?ref=511334.

Siegel, D. The Mindful Brain: Reflection and Attunement in the Cultivation of Well Being, W.W. Norton & Company, New York, 2007

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www.authentichappiness.org:  assessments such as signature strengths, VIA, satisfaction with life scale, authentic happiness inventory and others

 

 

 


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